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Please love your children a little extra today.

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by TucsonTundra1794, Dec 1, 2022.

  1. Dec 7, 2022 at 8:44 AM
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    N84434

    N84434 In the Frozen Tundra

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    So sorry about hearing of this. Words can't convey what I feel.
     
  2. Dec 7, 2022 at 9:44 AM
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    MDJK

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    Even though I don't know you personally, no parent should experience this type of pain. Prayers for your family's well being this holiday season
     
  3. Dec 7, 2022 at 10:47 AM
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    nhw544

    nhw544 Food fight!

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    I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
     
  4. Dec 7, 2022 at 12:30 PM
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    eccracer104

    eccracer104 Dirty Paws Off-Road

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    I can’t begin to imagine the pain you and your family are feeling. You and your family will be in my prayers. I’m so sorry for your loss.
     
  5. Dec 8, 2022 at 6:53 PM
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    TheBrit

    TheBrit Wrinkly member

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    My deepest sympathies, there are no words suitable and while I don't know you personally, little as it is, know that I hold you and your family in my heart.
     
  6. Dec 10, 2022 at 10:40 PM
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    Voss

    Voss Dust in the wind

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    My condolences. Heart breaking. I pray for his peace and your family coming together for each other.
     
  7. Dec 12, 2022 at 6:22 PM
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    RustyShackle323

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. Our family will keep you in our thoughts and prayers to help you through these times.
     
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  8. Dec 12, 2022 at 9:28 PM
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    JLS in WA

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    Just saw this thread. It’s a gut punch.

    Im just a random internet stranger. Suicide is a bitch for families. Both of my parents committed suicide over 25 years ago. It’s not something you ever just get over. Hopefully, you’ll learn to process your grief and stave off the demons that rear up from time to time.

    My youngest daughter tried to overdose last year. By the grace of God, she threw up twice in the night. That event triggered a cascade of pent up emotions that I had no idea still existed.

    Take care of your family. Get counseling. Make sure the other kids know they are loved. Truly. Mental health issues are a challenge, but every bit as real as diabetes or a heart condition.

    I can’t say the hurt ever really goes away, but there is peace. Don’t try to understand why. Allow yourself to be angry. And then accept your son was in a place so dark this was his only apparent option.

    Praying for you and your family tonight.

    John 16:22

    22 So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy.
     
  9. Dec 24, 2022 at 10:18 PM
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    RainMan_PNW

    RainMan_PNW SSEM #82 RGBA #4 “That Guy”

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    Anthony,
    While we are all celebrating with our families tonight and tomorrow, I can’t help but think about you and your family. I hope that you are all finding strength and hope this week, even if just little by little. Remember that so many of us are just a call or a PM away if you need anything at all.

    Merry Christmas
     
  10. Dec 24, 2022 at 10:25 PM
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    TucsonTundra1794

    TucsonTundra1794 [OP] ASCM #6-11 I'll buy if you're willing to ship

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    Thank you Casey,

    You and everyone else on here has helped me so much more then any of you realize. I appreciate every single one of you and I hope everyone has an amazing time with their family this holiday weekend.
     
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  11. Dec 29, 2022 at 8:33 AM
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    TucsonTundra1794

    TucsonTundra1794 [OP] ASCM #6-11 I'll buy if you're willing to ship

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    Just wanted to let everyone know we will be holding a memorial on January 28th here in town. I know a few of you had expressed interest in going so please pm me or text me for further details.
     
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  12. Dec 29, 2022 at 8:40 AM
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    GODZILLA

    GODZILLA ASCM#1 Douchebag formerly known as 50 Buck

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    We'll all be there in spirit, Anthony. If my schedule permitted and I were anywhere close, I'd be there. If there's anything I can do, PM me.
     
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  13. Dec 29, 2022 at 8:49 AM
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    TucsonTundra1794

    TucsonTundra1794 [OP] ASCM #6-11 I'll buy if you're willing to ship

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    Thanks bud
     
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  14. Dec 29, 2022 at 5:43 PM
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    Kung

    Kung ^ likes to fart

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    I can't be there; but if you wouldn't mind, if you can share the time, I'll make a point of it to pray for you and your family specifically at that time, if you're OK with that.
     
  15. Dec 30, 2022 at 6:09 AM
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    TucsonTundra1794

    TucsonTundra1794 [OP] ASCM #6-11 I'll buy if you're willing to ship

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    Of course, it starts 3pm mst.
     
  16. Dec 30, 2022 at 9:46 AM
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    C.I.

    C.I. Surf, off road, sleep, repeat

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    I'm so sorry you and your family have to go through such a horrific time... I have a niece that tried to take her life once, needless to say my heart broke, love her as if she was my own.

    Can't do much other than offer my condolences and hope your son has found peace.
     
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  17. Dec 30, 2022 at 11:34 PM
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    TampaRD Pro

    TampaRD Pro Cunning Linguist

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    So sorry to hear of your loss, deepest condolences to you and your family from mine. Our family also lost a cherished loved one on the 8th of December this year, through different circumstances but a terrible shock to us all just the same. December has historically been a hard month for our family through the years with the loss of my father, brother, father-in-law and mother-in-law in Decembers past. I know from experience how hard it is going through the holiday season (and any other time) with an ache in your heart that can't be salved. Reading through these posts there have been a lot of beautiful words written and advice offered. It serves to illustrate that we are all the same on a basic human level and compassion for others is a wonderous thing.

    Cherish the good memories of your son. Let everything else go. We all should be remembered for how we lived our life and not how or why it ended, in every circumstance.

    May the new year bring you all solace and peace.
     
    Last edited: Dec 31, 2022
  18. Jan 29, 2023 at 11:24 AM
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    scpete24

    scpete24 Duuuuuuude

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    Tough thread to read, very sorry for your loss. Hopefully the ceremony yesterday is able to provide some closure and begin the healing process.
     

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