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Proposal questions.

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by fisherman951, May 8, 2018.

  1. May 8, 2018 at 4:15 PM
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    fisherman951

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    So how did all u propose to ur wife? (For those that are married of course)

    I always say wife but we arnt married yet but have been together for almost 10years and 3 kids. So yea the time is getting close so just trying to get ideas of what ppl have done to get even more creative.
     
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  3. May 8, 2018 at 4:20 PM
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    :anonymous: i had to really think things over
     
  4. May 8, 2018 at 4:24 PM
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    My wife travels for work and is pretty much gone every week, and usually home on weekends. Well, I had already bought the ring and hadn't decided how I was gonna do it yet. She came home early from 1 of her trips because she wasn't feeling well. We had cuddled up on the couch watching TV, and it hit me.
    So when she got up for something, dont remember what, I ran to the room and grabbed the ring. When she came and layed back down, I told her I had something that would make her feel better. She said what and laughed, because she knows I'm an ass like that. I told her to give me her hand and I put the ring in her hand. When she got past the shock, and realized what it was she jumped up and that's when I asked her. Not real romantic but spur of the moment and a good surprise to make her feel better.
     
  5. May 8, 2018 at 4:24 PM
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    She might say no, you might wanna think it over some more. :rofl:
     
  6. May 8, 2018 at 4:27 PM
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    Thats in the back of mind still. Hahah trying to think what worries me the most what if she wants to drive my tundra now? WTH am i gonna do? Divorce right away?
     
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  7. May 8, 2018 at 4:28 PM
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    @Larmand thats a a cool way cheered her up for life when she wasnt feeling well
     
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  8. May 8, 2018 at 4:30 PM
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    Mine is only allowed to drive if I'm intoxicated and need a ride. Dont marry and divorce if in an alimony state. Regardless it's cheaper to keep her, child support is expensive.
     
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  9. May 8, 2018 at 4:32 PM
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    Get a prenup, the tundra is off limits :rolleyes:
     
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  10. May 8, 2018 at 4:36 PM
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    Kinda late to the party brah. At this point, you already are common law, what’s the point?

    To me, it looks like “well, I suppose I should make an honest
    Woman of her after 3 kids and countless wild sex nights over the past 10 years”...

    To answer your question, we were at the top of Piles Peak, 14209’, and I asked her to make me one of the miserable married guys.
     
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    Out on ATV's with a group and her sisters. We were asked to take a group pic by the river and only the guy taking "pic" (video) knew. Total surprise as her family though it would happen the following weekend when we were headed to Vegas.
    -Take her and the kids on an outing in the tundra. If you have tonneau cover fill it with blankets and go watch stars or something in the back. Then she will always link good memories to a tundra. Then you can more likely upgrade or mods. ;)
     
  12. May 8, 2018 at 4:44 PM
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    Handed my wife ( now) a box with a engagement ring in it with a Army name tape thru the ring. Told her she may as well sew it on her uniform. been close to 30 years now
     
  13. May 8, 2018 at 4:47 PM
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    Yes i tell her the same but every women fantasys pf their wedding. U know what i mean. We kind of did things backwards. Had kiids purchased a house we are financialy stable and so on. But i want to make her happy.
     
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  14. May 8, 2018 at 5:00 PM
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    I must have married a unicorn.
     
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    Proposed at Maroon Bells. Told her let's take a Christmas pic with our dog and then stayed on a knee when she got up.
     
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    I did on New Year's Eve, or do on a memoriable date (Anni bday holiday) take to a special place she likes or where ya first met
     
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    I’ll tell you what not to do... invite 40 of your and her closest friends and family for a Super Bowl party. Get shitfaced drunk the night before, piss your pants, and come home in the morning blacked out. Sleep through half the game while your guests are wondering where you are. Stumble out at halftime in your pajamas without even fixing your hair or brushing your teeth smelling like a garbage can. Get down on one knee to propose in front of everyone and say a bunch of slurred nonsense. Realize you left the ring in the bedroom and say “time out”. Run to the room, spend 5 minutes looking for the ring, come back out and back down on a knee. Say “Time in, ok will you Harry me?” And as everyone in the room is thinking this has got to be the worst proposal in history, just as she is about to give a reluctant “yes”, you turn your head to the right and puke your brains out on her grandma’s bare feet. :facepalm:
     
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    I was gonna say something very a$$hole-ish about the child support but I'm going to refrain lol
     
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    Common law isn't in every state..... and has requirements to be met in most....js


    I like how you asked her:)
     
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    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
    Omg I'm dying over here
    :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    You have got to be kidding right?
     
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    I don't think that's a story you could make up:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    I also had the ring and one night she had a bad day and just figured it was a good time. Why not already asked for her dad's blessing so all was good. This made her night alot happier and later that night she made my night happy.:D
     
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    Please tell me that didn’t happen to you:rofl::rofl::rofl:
     
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    I'm not married any more....but i thought his proposal was lame. I was an asshole and even asked if he asked my parents (because they are divorced) permission. When he said no....i told him no:rofl:

    We didn't have kids then though either.

    And one he asked my parents permission he asked while driving "i got the ok to ask you so will you say yes now?"
     
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    So true. I didn’t even look he lives CA. They do not recognize CLM. Colorado does, and when I did have live in GFs, damn right I received a rent check every month for that purpose.
     
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    Texas is too but you have to meet certain requirements. Nevada isn't a CLM state either
     
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    Can I get an amen and a second?
     

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