Suspension for platinum

I want to replace the shocks on my 16 platinum and retain air bags. I know if you go to to a Bilstein you lose the sport/comfort strut selector.

if I were to go with some 5100’s or some performance shock that didnt last very long, could I go back to the stock magnetic Toyota ones and regain my strut controls?

I think the factory shocks are supposed to kast 80-100,000 miles. I’m hesitant to get to em at first because I want the best handling I get for high speeds, cornering etc.