Question about necessary components to do a lift

Hello, I had A couple questions about what I need to have a proper 3 to 3 1/2 inch lift or if that is too high even? If I did, the West Scott preload collar Lift 3 & 1 On a regular 3rd gen tundra with black shocks no TRD suspension. Is it still possible? Can I do the rough country 3.5 inch lift or 3 inch lift with the M1 shocks? Without having to buy axles or anything extra also I was wondering if the differential lowering bracket solves that issue with having to get longer axles? If someone could please explain that would be so great. I don’t know where to find the answers. Or if maybe someone could point me out to a proper part list for a proper lift for the standard suspension third and tundra with the black Hitachi shocks? Everything I would need to have an upgraded ride quality without basically buying the top of the line kit.