Compustar and puddle lights, need some guidance

Hello all, i need some help. Recently i did a diy compustar cm-dc3 remote starter with dronemobile. While the system is great. There is 1 small minor issue i need help resolving.
The courtesy lights and puddle lights doesnt light up when unlock using fob while the truck is running, after it was remote started if course.
If the truck is not remote started, i unlock with fob and the interior and puddle lights lights up. Just like factory.
The DC3 module have a programmable output supplying 250mAh to negative (-) that can be turned on before flashing. So i turned it on for option 5-26 which is for Dome light. But now i dont know which trigger to tie it to. I tried the Blue (-) wire behind the interior light switch but it doesnt work. Do i need a relay or should i tap into the door trigger at the BCM?

i have a 2017 sequoia btw.

if anyone have compustar system and were able to get the dome lights and puddle lights to work after truck was remote started. Please let me know.

TIA

 

I’ve tried the relay from the photo below and still can’t get it to work. Using either the door trigger at BCM and at the interior light switch. I dont know what i did wrong.