2014 Tundra head unit replacement

Hi Folks, I am looking into replacement of my glitchy head unit. This is for a 2014 SR5 (no nav, basic entune?)
Ideally as follows;
-links to Apple phones
-links to steering wheel and dash knob/button controls
-works with existing back up camera
-AM/FM and bluetooth
-stock looking or as subtle as possible.
-no huge ipad screens required
-no CD required
-no Sirius required
-no voice controls etc required Appreciate any advice re model, anything else needed, and ease of diy install. Thanks!

 

Not to sure about gen 3 cause I own and concentrate on gen 2, but it may matter what type of audio system your truck has. Is it a jvc system with an amp cause that may complicate matters? I changed from a stock head unit to kenwood excellon. The results were night and day, and it was an easy install. I didn t get the top of the line excellon. Probably middle of the road model, but it s worked great. It has bluetooth, 2 usb connections, and an input connection, along with 2 camera connections. I m pretty sure it would be compatable with stock cameras. Think I paid bout 450-500 bucks for it new. I ve never owned an apple product in my life so I cant help you there.