2012 Tundra/Tundra Grade Tie Rods. (Non SR5/Limited)

I have a 2012 Crew Max Tundra Grade Tundra.
My tie rods are shot on the front.
I ordered a new one to replace one side, and when it came in it is longer and thinner than the original on the truck.
I purchased a Moog replacement.
Part number for Moog is ES800326.
Says it is a direct replacement. It is not. The inner tie rod threads are not deep enough to accommodate the longer Outer Tie rod
Everything else I have seen is the same as the MOOG.
But the one I have on the truck is short and thick.
can anyone point me in the right direction.
Also the truck has a 6 inch Pro Comp lift on it. if that matters.
Please let me know if I am missing something here..

Toyota OEM Part No.: 45046-09560

Number stamped on the tie rod on my truck is 90-40231(driver side) and 90-40232(passenger side)

 

Problem solved

 

Your issues with moog are the reason I will no longer use them for parts like tie rods and ball joints.
I've heard good things about Coachbuilder tie rods.
I'm only leveled but when I need tie rods I will purchase these.

https://shop-coachbuilder.myshopify.com/products/coachbuilder-oe-replacement-steering-kit

 

What did you do??