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Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by Bob, Jan 4, 2014.

  1. Aug 20, 2024 at 11:35 AM
    T-Rex266

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    I also sent this on Sat lol
     
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    T-Rex266

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    and this
     
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    T-Rex266

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    :rofl:
     
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    @Azblue already flexing his prowess.
     
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    LarryDangerfield

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    So in the past couple years I have met people who say they refuse to hug literally anyone but their significant other. That's a red flag right? I understand some people are less touchy-feely than others but not willing to hug parents or siblings or best friends no matter the circumstances is strange right?
     
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    GODZILLA

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    Depends. Could be related to childhood traumas. Could be that they have a jealous or fragile spouse and don't want the drama.
     
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    LarryDangerfield

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    I kind of already assumed it's related to trauma but I would have to say that perhaps it's unaddressed or untreated trauma? Idk, I just find it strange. Like when strangers or near strangers want to hug I totally understand rejecting that but if someone you consider a very good friend tries to give you a hug and you either straight up reject it or get extremely uncomfortable I just find that kind of alarming lol.
     
  11. Aug 20, 2024 at 3:31 PM
    T-Rex266

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    Not really..there’s someone on this forum who has a wife (not I) that does not do hugs in general.
     
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    Even treated/addressed, there can be an impact. Pulling a nail out of a board leaves a hole, and injuries of the past are the same.
     
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    LarryDangerfield

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    Yeah I don't mean to come across as being judgmental or attacking anyone's character who doesn't do hugs I guess it's just a really foreign concept to me. I feel like hugs are a great way for someone to convey their feelings for you. ( I'm not talking acquaintance sidearm stuff but a legitimate hug )
     
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    I’m usually a hugger in general. It’s just who I am
     
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    Tyler. Do you need a hug?

     
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    nobodyintexas What?

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    Whatever this forum told me to do
    I hug

    family and loved ones

    now I am VERY stingy with who I break bread with

    only family, friends and trusted biz partners
     
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    Fuck that is deep. Especially for my “Monday”.

    The more I learn about people the more I realize we each have triggers. I know I still haven’t fully recovered from the Covid isolation and large groups and/sounds can get me. Say for example, a crowded subway in Japan where personal space starts at your clothes. I do agree hugging as a trigger isn’t a common one, but not rare.

    Me too.
     
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    I hug lots of folks. If we met in person I'd probably give you one. But I've also met people who don't like hugs. I think they're weird.
     
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    Sons first practice with pads on. I’ve been so excited for this practice to start
     
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    Men don't hug.
     
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    Incorrect
     
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    The Dirty T ( ^_^)_且


    I know I'm new at this Mod (light) thing, but I swear I didn't do it.



    Maybe, I hope I didn't. :D
     
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    Maybe they had recently taken some viagra (sorry had to circle back to that one), and didn't want to make YOU uncomfortable... :D
     
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    Wait 4 hours before hugging
     
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    Or don't.. :devil:
     
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