Upgrade to LED Headlights causes inoperable fog lights

My apologies if this issue has been discussed before. I have a 2003 Tundra Access Cab with the 4.7L V8. Recently I upgraded the low beam bulbs from halogen to LED. The swap went great, until I tried to use my fog lights and noticed that turning on the fog light switch did NOT illuminate the fog lights but instead caused my high beams to come on. I had read previous posts about installing a resistor from superbrightleds.com in line with the driver's side headlamp, which I did, and noticed that my fog lamps now worked as expected. Great right? WRONG! After driving to work early one morning (about a 20 minute commute), I noticed that my driver's side headlamp was flickering once I entered the parking garage. A few seconds later it went out completely. Once I was parked, I raised the hood and found that the resistor I had installed was BLAZING hot...almost too hot to touch. I removed the resistor, plugged my headlamp back in and both headlights worked again, although now the fog lamp issue is here again. Has anyone come up with a better fix than this resistor trick?