How much can one person endure?

I'm sorry about what you are going through I wish I can give some advice but I have not gone through this but I know guys and gals here have a lot more experience and will offer their advice...just keep your head up man

 

If you knew your breaking point, would you just keep going until then....then quit???
Struggle breeds greatness and togetherness. Push on, focus on your family and lean on your friends.
Best wishes and prayers for your grandmother and family!

 

This! Just means you're becoming a better man!

 

Still bleeding? 'Just sayin....


OR....

 

I want to jump in with comforting words, but I need to stop giggling first.

 

no thank you....the bandaid works fine

 

@Almaboy
So sorry to hear about your grandmother. Like so many have said, this isnt an issue with your past coming to reap a harvest or anything but it’s a test.

Not looking to preach at you or offend anyone here, but... If you have anything spiritual that you believe in and can hold on to (for me it’s God) understand, truly believe, and take comfort in the fact that whatever entity that is for you (again, me-God), they are *not* waiting on the other side coaxing you through it. They are *with* you through the trial.
Despite my limited vocabulary don’t look at these as trials to “test your mettle” or “find out what you’re made of or how much you can take”. Look for the opportunity. Maybe that opportunity is to re-connect or perhaps spend more time talking with your grandma. Maybe that’s your grandma’s prayer (not suggesting this was purposeful to get you to think about her or talk to her more). For example “that Mark was a really great person, I wish I spent more time chatting with him” - that type of thing. Maybe it’s an opportunity elsewhere or with your own kids.

So again, my hope was not too offend or suggest that you blindly walk through life with the type of smile/grin that has other people wonder where your helmet is. It was just my attempt to help by sharing how I look at tough times and offer my solace in knowing that my Comforter is their in the “trial” and not just waiting on the other side of it.

 

Here you go Mark Just do some meditation.

 

love this!!! my kind of meditation!

 

I knew someone would like it. It’s relaxing ain’t it? I did it after my workout and heart rate came down quick

 

Its definitely fitting for my life!

 

Issues are just detours on the road of life, and thankfully you roll in a Tundra! You can handle anything, and you have your Tundra crew along side you!

Throw around the emotions man, get them off your chest and we'll all be sharing laughs together before you know it!

All the best man to you and your family.