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Thanks Casey, I believe it.

We were good buddies, both introvert hermits living out in the country.

 

Damn, that's rough dude.

Get your PSA checked fellas

 

You should throw some racing fuel in that bitch and see what it does

 

Or... we could just use @Blue Thunder 's method

 

Yes

 

Damn you guys were busy last night
I'll have to catch up later at work

 

Be warned, we may go NSFW

 

Please don't. I actively view this thread at work.

 

I hope so
I work mostly alone in the field

 

Sorry for your loss. I have never lost a sibling so I can't imagine how it feels.

 

As of a few years ago, 50% of our electricity was coal fired. Approval was also recently granted to tear up some of the mountains looking for more.

 

Sorry to hear this Adam. May she RIP. I have an older sister who I talk with a lot. Yesterday actually.

 

...and theme parks

 

I recently switched from Maverick's pure dino gas to a new Murphy's Express pure dino that is closer to me. 87 for 3.04 with reward discount.

 

First sibling for me as well. Loss is loss in my experience. Dad, grandparents, favorite aunt. All felt the same as this. It just is what it is.

 

1st...you have my condolences



2nd...I'm 57yrs....so, I know I'm entering the zone were friends and family start passing on. it's life.


Live accordingly.

 

My deepest condolences.

 

My condolences as well to you and your family for your loss. Salty or not I appreciate your perspective and your occasional fire breathing straight into my stream of thought.

 

Not sure I know that method.. or want to know

 

Sorry for your loss.

 

I…I don’t even know what that means Santa

 

Thanks for sharing. Please be sure to take care of yourself too.

 

I have lost both parents, grandparents and all aunts and uncles at this point. Sometimes I still feel overwhelming grief and sadness particularly when it comes to my parents. In those moments I like to remind myself that they wouldn't want to see me being sad but instead enjoying and making the most of life. Sometimes it helps and sometimes it doesn't.

 

A little different take, meant only as a grain of solace. Be happy you can be sad. I had a horrible mom. She passed when I was in my late 30's, and I hadn't spoken to her in more than a decade. When I heard she'd passed, I didn't care at all. Still don't - not a whit. That's a little corner torn out of a single page in a long past chapter in my life. I seldom examine the book close enough to see the flaw, but it's there.

Condolences again.

 

Well said. My mom passed away last February, and she was an extremely difficult and toxic person, made exponentially worse by the fact that she married my dad. Her parents were also two of the meanest people I have ever had to endure.

We moved her here and got her set up, but we were also constantly guarding our kids to make sure they were not effed up by her craziness. I have been taking care of her and our household since my earliest memories, while also navigating her fucking with everyone including myself.

When my dad "told us" that he was also moving here over a decade ago, after his second divorce, we kept it a secret from my mom that he also lived here -- both per his request, but also because that was the least objectionable option. I feel a lot of things with their passing, but mostly relief. What a relief to freely navigate the holidays, finally.

This past summer was the hardest time I have ever had, and I dug really deep to get through it. I have done a ton of home renovation over the years, but renovating my mom's condo by myself was the hardest thing I have ever done. I had to pull out some Glenn Harrold and psych myself, and a lot of sci fi audio books. And this thread helped as well. Maybe I will even go find some snow now.

 

HAH!
I ripped the carpet off our stairs nearly 10 years ago. We painted the OSB treads brown and the OSB risers slate and I still haven't gotten around to actually redoing it all in hardwood.