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OMG..another baby!

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  1. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:39 PM
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    Navi

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    Wife just dropped the mic - we’re expecting and i’m totally caught off guard. We have a healthy 19 mo old girl but fertility doctor said we had 1% - 3% chance of natural pregnancy..

    and somehow we’re pregnant naturally before we started treatments.

    I’m a little freaked out since i’m caught off guard by this news.

    We’re both old (and i like to sleep) but plans have changed on a dime.

    Wife is mad at me for being surprised but the the doctor just told us last week this was medically impossible.. i’m confused and not even sure why my wife is upset with me. i’m happy but was not expecting this. just going on what the medical people told us. makes me wonder of they’re just guessing.

    Wondering if anyone can relate??
     
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  2. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:40 PM
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    ps - kids are so awesome (but not cheap)
     
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  3. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:41 PM
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  4. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:42 PM
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    Well, so congrats I think?
     
  5. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:43 PM
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  6. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:43 PM
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    yep, very excited .. just wasn’t expecting this news. Dr said it would take 4 more months to see where things were headed
     
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  7. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:44 PM
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    Congratulations.
     
  8. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:45 PM
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    COMiamiFan Now you know something

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    Congrats! And Drs do know some stuff. We were told wife couldn’t get pregnant while breast feeding and yet #2 was made :rofl:

    What I’ve seen is that couples that go thru treatment, once the first one pops out, something happens to the woman’s body and BAM! become more fertile. Almost like it resets the hormones or you stop worrying about not be able to conceive and the less stress causes babies to be made easier.
     
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    Your 19 mth old needs a sibling. Two is only 1.5 times more difficult than 1.
     
  10. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:45 PM
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    Congrats. Better get some new mods in before the money is spent elsewhere...
     
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    THIS^^^^
     
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    Congrats..... I don't know what qualifies as sleep anymore......
     
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    Yea, she’s been so worried about only having 1 child, and she says they need a sibling, etc etc
     
  15. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:51 PM
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    Congratulations! I can relate - we tried various things and finally ended up with IVF. IVF failed we were taking a break from trying and two month laters we were pregnant.

    We were older too. Just took naps when the kids were napping. It was hard when the kids outgrew naps because I hadn't. ;)
     
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  16. Jan 11, 2019 at 5:52 PM
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    But 3 is also 1.5 times more difficult than 2
     
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    @COMiamiFan i wonder if this is true b/c once the Dr starts to talk about treatment and what they can do, things seemed to calm down and get more chill

    Almost makes me wonder if the stress or pressure of the situation can affect ‘things’ and when there’s less stress, stuff can happen

    I don’t know anything about science or how it works but it almost seems like this matters. Who knows
     
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    @sr5shark dang, that’s crazy

    Ivf failed - so sorry to hear that but glad it worked out in the end. Feel like that’s what happening here
     
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    If you really have 3 kids... you’re superhuman. No idea how you handle all that, and work a job, and do everything else. Props to you..
     
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    I've got 4 and 2 jobs...
     
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    It all worked out. We froze some embryos and these didn't work either. Ended up getting pregnant naturally again after trying the frozen embryos.

    Great that you were able to get pregnant without needing to do all the fertility stuff.
     
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    congratulations. prior to my tundra we had a sienna xle awd and we loved that truck. when you guys get it be sure to bookmark this:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8yZSM4_-sgA

    good luck getting it out of your head
     
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    Congrats. They say the things happen when you're not expecting it.:notsure:
    WHAT??? Where'd that doctor study? What did they study? Our second announced her arrival while my wife was still breast feeding.
     
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    We planned our second one. She removed the iud and around a month later was like :eek:
     
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    Just a month... that’s fast! Good for ya’lll. We’re almost 2 yrs into the 2nd one

    I’m wondering if these Doctors really have inside information or if it’s just all luck? Total respect to medical folks but just seems like the science isn’t alyways 100%.
     
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    Respect ✊
     
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    Congratulations

    Cancer left me “sterile”, but we had banked some and we used that to have our twins, which was perfect since we had one of each. We figured there was no need for birth control.....

    Dr’s sometimes get things wrong. 5 years later I was a dad again at 40. Needless to say I was at the doctors getting a vasectomy shortly after. 3 is enough, but couldn’t imagaine life without the youngest
     
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