1-2 harsh shift?

Hey guys,
So, I am coming from driving chevrolets my whole life except for 2 years where I owned my 09 manual Tacoma. So, maybe it is just me.

1-2 shift is kinda harsh. Rougher then any other shift even when warm. Is this natural? Also, it seems to downshift a little late when coming to a stop and I have to apply a little more brake from time to time at about 10 mph on decel. Can y'all point me in the right, or is this normal?
Thanks

 

Probably just you..

If you want you can disconnect the battery for about 30 mins. That gives computer enough time to drain the caps and erase whats stored in memory.. it will start learning again see if that changes it.

 

I heard this does work with Dodge's from another thread, can't remember where I read it though.